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Planning Your Birth Experiences

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Where to Start?

At the moment, you may or may not have any preferences. You may want to go with the flow, or you may be sure about a few things. It is helpful to understand what to expect and reflect on how you feel.

  • Attending childbirth classes
  • Talking to women who have given birth
  • Knowing your hospital’s birth philosophy and policies
  • Discussions with your doctor or midwife

Reasons to Write Your Birth Preferences

  • To get educated and feel empowered
  • To trigger dialogue with your doctor or midwife
  • To help your partner understand your wishes
  • To ensure the best possible experience
  • To prepare for different situations

Will Things Go My Way?

Labour is unpredictable and every birth is unique. While it is hard to plan every detail, discussing options and preferences helps you feel prepared. If situations change, your doctor or midwife will recommend the safest course of action for you and your baby.

“Every birth will unfold with its own uniqueness. You have the power in this journey to make it a positive experience and emerge as a strong and confident mother.”

Birth Companion

Decide who will be with you during labour. Labour is an intimate process and works best in a calm, private environment. Choose one person who makes you feel completely comfortable.

During Labour

Environment

Comfort and privacy enhance labour hormones. Dim lighting, soothing sounds, positive images and aromatic oils can help relaxation.

Movement and Mobility

Walking and changing positions can help labour progress. Birthing balls, chairs, mats and cushions may be used. Movement may be restricted if extra monitoring is required.

Monitoring

Monitoring ensures both mother and baby are coping well. Baby’s heart rate and the mother’s vitals are checked regularly. Additional monitoring may be used if required.

Non-Pharmacological Comfort Measures

Natural Options

Relaxation, massage, breathing techniques, hot or cold compresses, warm showers and birth pools can help manage labour pain.

Medications

Options include Entonox gas, IV pain relief such as Pethidine or Fentanyl, Tramadol injections and epidural anaesthesia.

Interventions During Labour and Birth

Most low-risk mothers deliver naturally. Sometimes medical interventions are needed to help labour progress or ensure safety. Being informed helps you cope better if interventions are required.

Induction and Augmentation of Labour

  • Sweeping of membranes
  • Prostaglandin gel insertion
  • Mechanical cervical ripening
  • Artificial rupture of membranes
  • Oxytocin (Syntocinon) IV drip

Episiotomy

The perineum is the area of skin and muscle between the vagina and the anus. An episiotomy is a small cut made by the doctor or midwife in this area to enlarge the vaginal opening during birth.

At our centre, episiotomy is not done routinely. A restricted and selective approach is followed. It may be recommended only when medically necessary—for example, if the baby’s heart rate is abnormal, if delivery needs to be expedited, or if instruments are required to assist the birth.

Our aim is always to support a safe birth while protecting the mother’s tissues as much as possible.

Assisted Birth

An assisted birth involves the use of special instruments to help deliver the baby’s head:

  • Forceps: designed to gently cradle the baby’s head and guide it through the birth canal.
  • Ventouse (vacuum): a suction cup attached to the baby’s head, sometimes used instead of forceps.

Assisted birth may be advised if:

  • The baby shows signs of distress during the pushing stage
  • The mother is exhausted and unable to continue pushing effectively

These decisions are made carefully and only when needed, with your safety and your baby’s wellbeing as the priority.

Induction and Augmentation of Labour

Labour usually begins naturally, but in some situations your doctor may recommend induction (starting labour artificially) if continuing the pregnancy poses a risk to the mother or baby. Augmentation is done when labour has started but contractions need to be strengthened.

Methods include:

  • Sweeping of membranes: During vaginal examination, the doctor or midwife gently separates the membranes from the cervix, helping release natural hormones (prostaglandins) that encourage labour.
  • Prostaglandin gel: Inserted into the vagina near the cervix to soften and prepare it for labour.
  • Mechanical cervical ripening: A small balloon catheter is used to gently open the cervix.
  • Breaking the waters (Artificial rupture of membranes): A small instrument is used to puncture the membranes, allowing the baby’s head to press down and strengthen contractions.
  • Oxytocin drip: A synthetic form of the natural labour hormone is given through an IV drip to start or strengthen contractions.

Your doctor will explain the reason, method, and process clearly before proceeding.

Medications for Pain Relief

You may choose different options for pain relief during labour:

  • Entonox (gas and air): A mixture of oxygen and nitrous oxide that helps reduce pain and anxiety.
  • Injectable pain relief: Medications such as Pethidine, Fentanyl (IV), or Tramadol (IM) may be used.
  • Epidural Analgesia: Provides excellent pain relief by numbing sensations from the waist down. You may still feel pressure and be able to move with assistance.
    • Walking may be limited
    • A urinary catheter and continuous fetal monitoring may be needed
    • You may not feel a strong urge to push

Your comfort, preferences, and safety guide pain relief choices.

Interventions During Labour and Birth

Most low-risk mothers give birth naturally without medical intervention. However, sometimes labour doesn’t progress as planned, and medical support may be needed. Being informed and discussing possibilities in advance helps you feel more confident if interventions become necessary.

Flexibility and trust are key—birth is unpredictable, and preparedness brings strength.

Monitoring During Labour

  • Baby’s heart rate is monitored
  • Mother’s contractions, pulse, blood pressure, and temperature are checked
  • Monitoring frequency depends on your condition and pregnancy history. You may change positions freely unless medical monitoring requires otherwise.
  • If needed, additional monitoring such as continuous fetal heart tracing or scalp blood sampling may be done.

Non-Pharmacological Comfort Measures

  • Breathing and relaxation techniques
  • Massage and reassurance
  • Warm showers or sitting in the birthing pool
  • Hot or cold compresses

These methods support natural coping and may be combined with medical options.

Natural Options

If you have attended childbirth classes, you may already be familiar with techniques such as breathing, relaxation, and movement. Depending on your condition, you are encouraged to use all safe comfort measures available to you.

Birth Companion

Choosing a birth companion is an important decision. This could be your partner, a close family member, or a doula. Labour is an intimate process, and having someone you trust can be comforting. To maintain privacy and reduce stress, it is often best to limit support persons to one person with whom you feel completely at ease.

A calm, supportive presence helps labour hormones work effectively.

During Labour

Environment

A peaceful environment supports labour. Dim lighting, soothing music, positive imagery, and calming scents can promote relaxation and progress.

Movement and Mobility

You are encouraged to move freely—walk, change positions, and use aids such as birthing balls, stools, mats, and cushions. Some monitoring situations may require temporary movement restrictions.

Other Interventions

Routine practices such as enemas or shaving are not routinely recommended and are done only if medically indicated.

Pushing and Birth of Your Baby

You are encouraged to follow your body’s natural urge to push and choose positions that feel comfortable. If needed, gentle guidance will be provided. You may request a mirror to view the crowning and birth of your baby if you wish.

Water Birth

Water birth can be a gentle and calming option for suitable mothers. The baby is born under water and begins breathing once exposed to air. Safety is assessed by the midwife or doctor before and during use of the birthing pool.

After Your Baby Is Born

  • Immediate skin-to-skin contact is encouraged
  • Delayed cord clamping is practised
  • Your partner may cut the cord if you wish
  • Early breastfeeding and breast crawl are supported
  • If your baby needs help, the paediatrician will examine the baby first and return the baby to you as soon as possible
  • A vitamin K injection is given to the baby to prevent bleeding problems
  • An oxytocin injection is given to the mother to help the uterus contract and reduce bleeding

These practices promote bonding, recovery, and a healthy start.

Caesarean Section

A caesarean section is a surgical procedure in which the baby is delivered through an incision in the abdomen and uterus. It may be planned or done as an emergency if vaginal birth is not safe.

Your partner is encouraged to be present unless an emergency requires otherwise. Regional anaesthesia is usually used, allowing you to remain awake.

Your baby is brought to you as soon as possible after birth, with skin-to-skin contact and breastfeeding initiated early—even in the operating theatre.

Even when birth takes an unexpected path, bonding and support remain central to your experience.